Archive for May, 2005

U2

Wednesday, May 18th, 2005

I’m finally awake now- got home at almost 1:30 am. Poor Nick- I’d intended to let him have a day off today, but he was home sick on Monday so he had to drag himself out the door this morning. But he’s got his new concert tee on and he didn’t look too tired…

I tend to get long with these concert review things…

Let’s get the negative stuff out of the way first-

The guy in front of us who screamed every time Bono spoke.
The guy in the next section who whistled - long and loud - every time Bono spoke.
The people smoking (tobacco and not tobacco).
The silly no cap on soda/water bottle rule that resulted in much liquid spillage on the slippery steps.
The not so great sound system that really made it hard to hear Bono (especially over the screaming and whistling.)
The ride home- brilliant scheduling construction on Rt. 3 on the night of a concert at CAA.

OK, that’s it for negativity. Because the postives were so much more powerful!

We got our replacement tickets without a hitch, and went in to relax. Opening act Kings of Leon seemed like they might be good, but all their songs sounded alike- and very muddled.


The stage and lights were wild- an ellipse reached out from the main stage that all 4 band members came out onto at various points. Lots of flashing, blinking, colors everwhere. I took some pictures with my camera phone- they’re pretty lousy but you get the general idea. Lots of people taking pictures, despite the “No Cameras” on the ticket- they were only stopping people with professional setups, I think.

I’m a big fan, but not a BIG FAN, and this show was heavy with songs I don’t really know well, but loved hearing anyway. Nick seemed to most enjoy the new stuff (he really got into Vertigo) and some of the older songs like Pride. They opened with City of Blinding Lights, nice start for a NJ/NY crowd. Highlights for me were Beautiful Day (a song that helped carry me post-9/11), Sometimes You Can’t Make It on Your Own (great image of a walking man on the screen behind the stage- his dad?), Love and Peace or Else into Sunday Bloody Sunday into Bullet the Blue Sky… it’s stuff like this that makes for a great concert to me- the message in the music. Pride and Where the Streets… were wonderful- it was funny watching the older crowd members (you know, older than me ;) ) leap to their feet for these two. Nick was bemused.

Before they played One Bono told everyone to take out their cellphones and text their names to the word UNITE. I couldn’t figure out how to text on my phone (duh) but eventually figured it out and sent Nick’s name. During the song everyone waved their cellphones. Not quite the same as lighters of days gone by, but it looked pretty cool.

As expected, Bono made a few political and social comments throughout the show. I hate to paraphrase, so I won’t, but he talked about God inspiring people of science, and the hope that Believers can see the power of God in science… I agreed with that one so hard I nearly fell over :clap: !

They never really left the stage before playing the encores, at least not long enough to make you wonder if they were coming back (of course they were!) We got a total of eight encore songs, which apparently was the most they’ve done so far. My favorites were Original of the Species (wow, seeing that song while standing next to my amazing son, at the age when I most want him to hear what those words are saying…) which was apparently a last minute addition- Bono had to go over and tell The Edge to take off the guitar and head to the keyboard- and 40. At the end of 40 the band members waved and left the stage one by one- till just Larry Mullen was left at the drums. Suddenly he started bashing away… the stage lights come back up and the rest of the band appears and jumps into a reprise of Vertigo. I was absolutely amazed at how empty the arena was by then- so many people left even before The Edge was off the stage- and they missed this incredible finish (their loss!)

Neat thing- the woman next to us and I were both at the Arena on the night it opened in 1981 to see Springsteen.

Neater thing- seeing The Edge live. Wow.

Neatest thing- that my son is so into a band that had it’s first hit 10 years before he was even born! Less kids in the crowd than at the Springsteen shows, but still, a bunch of them. Although Nick enjoyed the Springsteen show, this one was for him- he knew the music, he really wanted to be there, he sang along… this is the glory part of being mom.

Baby slow down
The end is not as fun as the start
Please stay a child somewhere in your heart

I’ll give you everything you want
Except the thing that you want
You are the first one of your kind

In need of peer pressure

Tuesday, May 17th, 2005

There must be something wrong with me. I’ve been wanting to redo our bedroom for, oh, about 19 years now, and finally we’re not only painting the bedroom we’re in now, but we’re in the planning stages to build a brand new one! I went to Pottery Barn online and found a vanity, night tables, and even framed prints I love, & that would be perfect. I loaded up my cart, filled in all the buyer info…

and stopped.

I can’t do it. I can’t spend $1500 on furniture and stuff for myself. What is wrong with me? At least I did get a dresser I liked in Target- and maybe that’s part of it, since I got that for such a good price I hate to pay more for the other pieces I want. But Target doesn’t have the other pieces I want, and Pottery Barn does.

It’s not that we can’t afford it, it’s more that I can think of so many other things to spend that money on. None of which are things we need, just other “wants.”

Tell me it’s ok to push the Purchase Now button. Tell me I won’t regret spending that money to have beautiful new furniture in our room instead of the broken and worn, completely mismatched pieces we have now.

2 days to U2!

Sunday, May 15th, 2005

Remember those U2 tickets I lost? Called today, 2 days before the show, and as promised Ticketmaster said there will be vouchers waiting for us at the box office one hour before showtime. Just need my order number, credit card I used, and photo ID… good thing I remembered what card I used, I have like 5 Visas, 2 MC, Discover… (no, I don’t owe money on all, or even most, of them!)

I haven’t really been thinking much about the show up till now, but now I’m getting excited! I need to put U2 in heavy rotation on my iPod- I hate going to a concert and not knowing the songs, and I’m afraid I’ve neglected the new album (of course, Vertigo has been drilled into my head just like everyone else…) Nick is very excited, it’s going to be fun doing this with him.

Saturday

Saturday, May 14th, 2005

Nick’s team won again- they’re 5-0, wahoo! The kid’s been playing sports since he was five, soccer, baseball, hockey, basketball, soccer again… and he’s never been on a winning team. Till now. He’s glowing. Really, it’s very cool.

Tim and Nick had money to burn so Pat and I took them to Target. Nick got a new watch, but they didn’t have the memory stick he wanted (amazon is the next stop), and Tim has discovered Pokemon- so he bought himself a starter set. I think it’s Emerald, for those of you who know such things.

Nobody? Good, me either. Anyway, they’re all new Pokemon and he’s beyond thrilled with his purchase.

I like when my kids are happy.

Meanwhile, I got a new dresser and wall mirror from Target, so Andy can have my old dresser (he’s been making do with a plastic cart thing for 3 years.) We also finally got paint for my bedroom, so hopefully we’ll get that taken care of within a week or so. I totally ignored my mom’s advice and got a “dark color”. She gave me the same advice when I was a teenager and wanted to put denim wallpaper up (”no, it’s too dark and depressing.”) I always regretted it (I got blue flowery paper instead that I never really liked but she loved… story of my youth.)

Anyway, I love my new wallcolor, it’s called Quiet Storm. The trim and ceiling will be white, as will all the furniture- eventually. Of course, I only plan on living in this room for another year, since I hope we have the addition done by next summer, but I can’t stand putting off painting it any longer! When we move out it will become Andy’s room when he’s around, and a guest room / media room (read Pat’s music room) when he’s away. Good thing Andy isn’t really into room decor, as long as I don’t put in a flowery bedspread and curtains he should be cool with it.

I’m trying to shake off a headache, then heading outside to do a little yard clean up. Tim has a game tonight, and Pat will take him, but I’m not sure I’m going to watch- I’ve come to realize that I’m One Of Those Moms… the ones that get frustrated with their kid’s performance and have a hard time keeping quiet about it- not good for either of us. Maybe I’ll ride my bike over there for awhile anyway, I can sure use the exercise!

Running & Racing

Friday, May 13th, 2005

Tim at field dayHad a busy but fun day today. First it was off to Tim’s school for field day. The weather was great for it, bright skies and cool temps. They played silly little games that they loved! But mostly they complained that they were hungry and thirsty. More parents than usual turned out which was nice to see- and they planned the lunch schedule for close enough to noon that a lot of working parents were at least able to picnic with the kids afterwards. We had to eat on the baseball field since all the grounds are construction zones. Of course how could the kids resist running the bases? Around and around, kicking up the dirt… right into our faces as we tried to eat.

Nick's car with solar panelThen I went to Nick’s school for his Solar Sprints competition. Teams of kids had to design a car that would run on a solar panel, and be able to carry an empty soda can, then they raced them. Because there was no way to know it was going to be such a gorgeous day, they actually ran them indoors, attached to batteries. Nick’s car did very well, but in the end lost to a speedy little thing that didn’t look like it would support a solar panel. To be fair they should have made the cars run with the panels attached, even if they weren’t hooked up- but lesson for today is Life’s Not Fair. When they did take it outside and run it with the panel (which they hadn’t really been able to do yet) it worked perfectly.

They did win 2nd place for craftsmanship and 4th for design. The first place team for design? A group of 4 girls who made a pink & orange tie-dyed car, & wore matching outfits (tie-dyed shirts to match the car, and ribbons in their hair.) I loved it- great to see a lot of girls involved in something this this, and very cool that they prettied things up a bit :curtsey: .

Or, I could just buy that Mustang.

Thursday, May 12th, 2005

This week’s Time magazine cover story is about female midlife crisis.

Oh, that’s what this is? That’s what has me all flustered, huh. I thought I was just bored. But it’s interesting to see a lot of my feelings covered in that article. Spiritual crisis, longing for a change of scenery, thinking back on what I gave up to have what I have now and how I can reclaim some of it.

The sad part was that a lot of the women profiled cited divorce as a turning point. So many women are afraid to think about what’s best for themselves, vs what’s expected of them from others. I guess it takes an outside push to get some to move past that. At least I have the benefit of an inside push and the knowledge that I should listen to it.

I’ve been thinking a lot about what’s next. Obviously I still have three boys to raise, and that will continue to be my primary focus. And my husband’s career is what keeps us sheltered and comfortable. So it’s important, to me personally (not necessarily for others) that I keep up my role as home CEO, or whatever you want to call it. Somebody has to keep juggling all five of our lives. I have no regrets about following the less stressful, simpler path, either. I made very conscious choices about how to live my life so we could be comfortable on one income, and live a less crazy existance than some of our neighbors. It’s paid off. Nope, no regrets.

And that leaves me an awful lot of freedom to follow my own path. It’ll have to be a path in central NJ, of course, but I’m sure I’ll find it here somewhere. I’ve already been able to make some decisions (real life interference not withstanding) that will make for a smoother ride, and that alone- making and sticking with decisions- is a major achievement for me (I can see you nodding your head, Patrick.)

Time to move forward.

BUGS

Wednesday, May 11th, 2005

NOT termites These icky things are swarming outside my garage. I checked- they’re ants, not termites. And Pat assures me they’re the “good ants,” nothing to worry about.

Still, they’s nasty critters.