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a little snow

Wednesday, February 7th, 2007

Tagging from my friend Bluegrass Mama’s post last week about how much snow it takes to close school

This is what we woke up to this morning. It’s just enough to coat the driveway- you can see Pat’s tire tracks. Not enough to make it worth dragging out a shovel, or even a broom. The road is completely clear.

Nick went off as usual to the bus stop at 7:30, and about 5 minutes later my neighbor called to let me know there’s a 2 hour delayed opening. So Pat rescued him from the cold (currently… 8 degrees.)

The problem around here is that we use a 3 tiered busing system. First the buses do the high school run, then the middle school, finally the elementary. The high school run is early, kids are picked up between 6:40 and 7 or so, and the school itself is up in the “mountains” which do get snowier and icier. So at the slightest hint of a slippery surface, the HS delays it’s opening because of safety concerns. Of course, the parents of HS kids can generally still head off to work and depend on the kids to get themselves onto the bus when it shows up.

But because of the domino effect, when there is a delay the elementary school buses don’t pick up till around 10:15 or so. Now for me, it’s not a big deal. I don’t have a job I need to be at. But for the vast majority of parents, it’s a huge PITA. It’s hard enough to take time of when your child is sick, but try to explain to the boss and coworkers who not only got to work on time, but found the roads clear sailing, that you’ll be late because of the weather?

If it was a rare occurrence maybe it would fly. But this is the second time within 2 weeks.

MySpace…

Thursday, January 18th, 2007

So MySpace is making it “easier” for parents to check on their kids.

MySpace is here, and when it’s gone there’ll be something else to replace it. Banning my kids from using it would be counter-productive in the long run. But I can place restrictions on using it, and I do. I have Nick’s password, full access to his account. I have told him to remove information, and he does it or he loses the account.

This plan by MySpace will allow parents to see the username, age, and location of anyone logging on to MySpace on their home computer. Pretty useless from a parenting standpoint. The kids don’t put their real names, ages, or their real locations in the profile. Instead that information is revealed in quizzes, blog posts, “about me”s , and in the comments.

Thankfully, it looks like most of my son’s friends have “private” profiles (as he does) so only friends can see them. But it’s not a perfect system. Kids add celebrities as friends, maybe a local band or a big brother or sister’s friends and… it’s just not that hard for strangers to be able to see those profiles.

The only way I feel comfortable with it is having full access, and actually logging in now and then.

I hate third grade

Thursday, December 7th, 2006

Third grade has gotten insane. It was always the year that’s just too full of stuff. Learning cursive, learning multiplication and division, writing book reports, learning how to research…

But the amount of homework and especially longer term assignments Tim is bringing home is mind-boggling. At this moment he has a 3 paragraph essay due Monday, a project about ancestry (involving interviewing grandparents and making a giant paper doll) due Thursday, a book report due Friday, and some kind of anti-bullying thing due “in January.” Also I’ve just been told that he was supposed to bring in some kind of family recipe project today, something I’ve not seen at all, something he can’t find.

And of course there’s the weekly spelling homework. And the regular daily assignments. I honestly don’t know how families more involved in other activities than us keep track- I barely can.

Oh, almost forgot the supplies I need to send in for a holiday craft project, a book for a class holiday exchange, and items for his class play next Friday.

I’ve never been a big fan of homework. I figure 6.5 hours of school a day is plenty. I hate that most of these assignments are to get the kids ready for standardized testing in the spring, which benefits only the school’s bottom line, not my kid.

It reminds me why I considered homeschooling Andy.

Tim can do the work. But he routinely spends 2 hours a night doing homework. I’m sorry, that’s not right. Not at all. If he’s struggling in some area, of course, reinforce the lessons with homework. But all he’s struggling with is keeping track of it all. This is third grade, he shouldn’t have to plan his time like a college student to make deadlines.

Yo, lemme take care o’ dis for ya

Friday, November 3rd, 2006

So, hey, Joe Piscopo called! He wants me to vote for Tom Kean Jr! And Rudy Giuliani called! He wants me to vote for Tom Kean Jr., too! So do these guys!

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Why are these people all contacting me to ask me to vote for Tom Kean Jr.? I’m pretty sure we’re on the phone/mail list because our last name ends in a vowel. Because apparently incumbent Sen. Menendez dissed the Italian-Americans by not backing Sam Alito for Supreme Court. And, to quote the post card “New Jerseyans are supposed to take care of their own.” In other words, because Menendez didn’t support an Italian-American, Italian-Americans need to kick him out of office. Never mind any actual issues, nope, we Italian-Americans need to take care of each other.

Keep in mind, folks, that these are the same people who think the fictional, over the top, pure entertainment show The Sopranos is harming the image of Italian-American NJians.

100

Monday, October 30th, 2006

That’s how many US soldiers died in Iraq in October (which still has a day or so left, of course.)

I couldn’t find the number of Iraqis who have died, but it was over 300 police and militia alone during Ramadan. Hundreds of civilians die every week.

We aren’t fixing this.

It’s making me giggle…

Tuesday, August 29th, 2006

… imagining the reaction I’d get from certain people if I walked around in this shirt:

It’s in Arabic, and translates to “I am not a Terrorist.” I’d actually prefer it if it had something innocuous on it, like “Have a Great Day!” in Arabic. Same effect, nicer thought.
Read the story of the shirt here.

Pure comedy gold…

Monday, July 24th, 2006

Ann Coulter on the 700 Club.

On her book that calls liberals “godless”:

But I really haven’t heard people protest about that. No, they’re upset about what I say about the Jersey Girls. But, oh, yeah, OK, we’re all godless. So I think we all are on record now, officially liberals have admitted they are godless and don’t even mind it.

On Darwinism:

[...]they have species that could, in theory, be a transition between one animal and another. But as I say in the book, this is like saying, you know, Elton John looks like Janet Reno. Therefore Elton John gave birth to Janet Reno.

The only thing that would have been better would be if Pat Robertson had done the interview. Scary. But funny.